Updates in the World of Ocho...
I'm Just Gonna Rip it Off Like a Band-Aid...
(in several installments)
Part 1
Relationships and the End of an Era
I have a new relationship status. I looked for agnostic... I looked for "I'm complicated"... and finally I realized that perhaps though I remain somewhat agnostic, I should tippy toe into the seemingly cosmic situation that was
unfolding before me and see what happened...
The fact remains, someone's going to leave or someone's going to die... and based on recent news reports that a woman died from Coca-Cola intake - it may be sooner than I'd previously thought for me...
It's been quite some time since I've been on a "date". I don't much believe in "dating", I never have... It's always felt bizarre to me, like a "Test Drive" - even when I was younger.
The dates I've been on have been wonderful and divine, but I can have a wonderfully divine time by myself-twice as fast because I don't have to discuss plans with anyone else.
I've known for the last 5-10 years - since the ex and I began to part ways - that if someone was going to be in my life for a period of time - an era, even - then it was going to have to be someone who absosmurfly blew my doors off.
That almost happened in the latter part of the first decade of the turn of the century, but the planets didn't align correctly. At the time, I wondered as many of us do when a relationship burns out and you're shot out the fanny end of it, why it didn't jive out like I had wanted.
This week, as I begin to pack things up at the Ocho to move to my new location I'll know that 2008-2012 was an era like any other - made to chisel us and prepare us for the next one and it's now time to close the book on it.
For More Info on my projects Google KCoJax, Flawn Ocho, Ocho-rific
I'm Just Gonna Rip it Off Like a Band-Aid...
(in several installments)
Part 1
Relationships and the End of an Era
I have a new relationship status. I looked for agnostic... I looked for "I'm complicated"... and finally I realized that perhaps though I remain somewhat agnostic, I should tippy toe into the seemingly cosmic situation that was
The fact remains, someone's going to leave or someone's going to die... and based on recent news reports that a woman died from Coca-Cola intake - it may be sooner than I'd previously thought for me...
It's been quite some time since I've been on a "date". I don't much believe in "dating", I never have... It's always felt bizarre to me, like a "Test Drive" - even when I was younger.
The dates I've been on have been wonderful and divine, but I can have a wonderfully divine time by myself-twice as fast because I don't have to discuss plans with anyone else.
I've known for the last 5-10 years - since the ex and I began to part ways - that if someone was going to be in my life for a period of time - an era, even - then it was going to have to be someone who absosmurfly blew my doors off.
That almost happened in the latter part of the first decade of the turn of the century, but the planets didn't align correctly. At the time, I wondered as many of us do when a relationship burns out and you're shot out the fanny end of it, why it didn't jive out like I had wanted.
This week, as I begin to pack things up at the Ocho to move to my new location I'll know that 2008-2012 was an era like any other - made to chisel us and prepare us for the next one and it's now time to close the book on it.
For More Info on my projects Google KCoJax, Flawn Ocho, Ocho-rific
